Without the dog, the dogcraver's life is very hard. He constantly feels threaten,scared, he often changes moods going from one extreme to another. He feels detached. He feels lost. But once the dog is acquired, things start to change.
Due to well established social consensus, that has lasted for
centuries and the consensus is that dogs are good and safe,the person
accepts that, as the definition, and sees in the dogs a life saving
chance. The dog, since it is perceived by the society as something
positive in general, is a ticket out of that horrible but safe
setting. Not only that it is a ticket it is the ticked, the only one
he's got, so all the focus is diverted towards the dog.
Since he perceive that the society sees dogs as positive, he
automatically assumes that he will be accepted and perceived as
positive. So since he will be accepted and not rejected, positive but
not negative, he will be safe. However, since he is a narcissist he
demands the constant attention. The unconditional attention. The
unconditional means that he demands to be accepted as it is, he needs
to be accepted totally or not at all. He cannot adjust to others
since others don't exist. Also changing in order to adjust to others
would disturb the stability of the system and thus the safety would
be destroyed. The request to accommodate the needs of others, the
dogcraver sees as the denial of his own needs and therefore as the
attack aimed to destroy him completely. So the very thought of change
is rejected and not only that it is rejected it is perceived as the
threat. As a threat aimed to deny his right to live and cancel his
This view places the dogcraver personality in a position of the
victim. He is the one that is in danger, he is the one that needs to
be protected and ultimately as the victim he cannot be blamed and
everything that he does is justified. The dogcraver accepts the
victim status only so that it can use it in order to impose his will.
The victim status gives him the right to do anything what he wants
and when ever he wants, without any consequences. Victim position is
in essence the safe position and therefore the only position where
the dogcraver can be. He is entitled for that position, it belongs to him by default.
So the dogcraver uses his victim status to demand unconditional
justification for his actions. By bonding with the dog, he uses the
dog as a tool to achieve his demands. He has only one demand and that
demand is,his total and absolute domination over everything.
As the consensus accepts the dogs as good and as he owns the dog
and loves the dog, he is granted the the access to society and thus
the interaction between the dogcraver and the society begins.