Due to the inability to control himself
the dogcraver seeks ways to control the outside world and the others,
in the attempt to achieve safety. His inner feeling of insecurity
than turns into the desire for total dominance, since only than he
can fell safe and be able to function. To put it in the most blunt
way, since he is unable to adjust to the outside he adjusts the
outside to himself.
The way how the dogcraver interacts
with the outside world is trough his dog. The dog is the statement,
the status symbol,the communication device for the outside world.
Since the interaction with the outside is not personal, but it is
done trough the device, the dogcraver is safely hidden behind the
wall, disconnected from the reality. This detachment from the
reality, is the basis for the further development of the dogcraver,
since it gives him a sense of invulnerability. The dogcraver takes
that as the definition of freedom and acts according to it.
Depending on the strength of the
society the dogcraver will adjust his behaviour.
If the society has strict rules and
laws, that are always accompanied by the penalties, this social
conditioning will shape the dogcraver interaction with the reality.
But since he is ever poised to dominate, when ever the freedom is
given, that space of freedom will automatically be turned into the
dogcraver's despotic dominion, thus nullifying the very thought of
freedom. However, since he is poised to dominate all life, the
dogcraver will constantly seek ways to expand and to conquer more and
more ground and thus it will seek ways to influence the society to
accept his need for more space aka his need for more domination. He
will fight for his domination in every way shape or form, sacrificing
everything with no mercy and without compassion. Actually, not
sacrificing cause he can't sacrifice anything cause he counts the
sacrificing as losing and for him sacrifice is the cost, the damage
that needs to be avoided at all costs.
This is another trademark of the
narcissistic nature of the dogcraver's personality. Everything is
seen as merchandise and it is judged by its usefulness, by the
benefits it brings to the dogcraver. Cause only thing that he values
is his own personal well being, his safety.
If the society does not have the strict
laws, the dogcraver expands uncontrollably. In these societies the
laws are subjected to the dogcraver and are installed to protect him
and his behaviour at the expense of others. His personal safety is
above the safety of the whole society and thus everyone else feels
insecure and subjected to the will of the dogcravers.
This is an interesting commentary. I, too, have observed the "proverbial inch": If you give the malicious dog owner even a tiny bit of flexibility, they try to take over everything... and often succeed!
ReplyDeleteWould you mind if I blogged about this? I will give you credit, of course.
By all means. This story has a long way to go, thank you for reading it.
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